This is the standing of sparkplug in our community - the further right, the more of a Wikinut they are!
Older people do deserve our respect, after all they have earned it.
I hope that you will take what has been said into consideration when you make that decision as to where you want to spend eternity.
What does it take to be a good Christian, and how do we really know that our Soul will go to Heaven?
Is the grass ever really greener? Why would anyone take the chance of loosing everything and hurting the only person who may ever really Love them to try and find out?